Prayer Request

Lord please i need your help… help me deal and handle mathew , how do i keep calm and speak to him gently when he continuously disobeys me. Lord how do i make him feel loved.. yet direct him in the right way. Lord i am so confused and frustrated. I feel like i dont know what i am doing and i am doing everything wrong with him. What do i do… lord please guide me, tell me what to do. Open his mind.